Chris Wood
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Amazing Friends stuck to the fun side of college life while the solo series would show him stressing over school and work deadlines. Neither show was slice of life so this was thankfully never the most important part of an episode. It's just the little details that remind us Peter is a regular guy that still has his own issues to deal with when the mask is off.
I think the 1981 solo series remains the most accurate animated adaptation of the first few decades of the comic. As you said, you get some nice moments with JJJ and Aunt may in addition to the superheroing. It doesn't have MJ, Flash, or Harry, and there is a bit too much Doctor Doom, but otherwise it feels like one is watching the comic.